Details determine whether the other person is a perfect boyfriend

Love can make people's brains blank, crazy and paralyzed, but women can never be blinded by love. Love is not a battle, but it is more cruel than war. Not only do you have to fight with others, but do you know how to test your boyfriend? Does he really love you if he says he loves you? I’ll teach you some secret tricks on identifying people that are never passed on to others.

1. Respect, tolerance and values ​​from the perspective of dating:

Dating is definitely a good time to observe the other person, from the choice of location, activities, and meals to see if he will respect your opinions. If you don't eat spicy food, he shouldn't force you to eat spicy hotpot, at least try a shabu-shabu hotpot instead. Being able to go to high-end restaurants and also accepting street food shows that this person is flexible in his life and in the use of money. Does he respect your time and not be late for dates? If we are forced to be late, we will contact you to let you know our estimated time of arrival, instead of letting you look around and wait anxiously.

2. Judging suitability and personality from speech :

Chatting plays an important role in the relationship between men and women. I always think it is very important for two people to have something to chat about, especially for marriage partners. It is happiness to find someone you can talk to for the rest of your life. A person's upbringing and personality can be seen from his words and conversation. Does he always use indecent catchphrases to greet your mother? Does he always talk about himself and never listen? Are you interested in the topic he talks about? Does he only talk about irrelevant things and fail to share his deeper thoughts and opinions? If you can't chat with each other, you can only be sexual partners. If you can chat with each other, you can be soul mates.

3. See the thoughtfulness from the small details of getting along:

When dining together, does he take the initiative to get the menu, cutlery, pour water, and take orders? Small details like these can help us see whether he is a master who waits for others to serve him in everything, or a considerate man who knows how to take care of others. When you walk on the street, does he pay attention to your steps and walk on the outside of the road to protect you? If you take the escalator going up, he will stand behind you, and if you take the escalator going down, he will stand in front of you. If the date is too late, will he take you home or call to make sure you get home safely?

4. Judging a person’s character from his relatives and friends:

When pursuing someone, it is inevitable that you want to show your best side, just like everyone has to disguise themselves in a job interview, so some human resources agencies will contact the job applicant's previous supervisor or colleagues in the workplace to investigate and evaluate. The same applies to the job vacancy of "boyfriend". Look for opportunities to get to know the other person's friends, colleagues, and family. See what kind of friends he makes, how he gets along with his colleagues, and how his family treats him. From his interactions with relatives and friends, perhaps you will discover another side of him.

5. Trustworthiness from the perspective of work performance:

A person who is not responsible for his work is likely to be unable to be responsible for his relationships. Frequent job changes may indicate a lack of stress resistance and stability, which reveals that his personality may be immature. Never changing jobs may also be a sign of being content with the status quo and not striving for progress. Is he ambitious about his job, or is he just going through the motions? If you ask him to take a day off or skip work to accompany you just because you are in a bad mood, and he does so, although it may please you temporarily, it will also show that his work attitude is not trustworthy. I really don't think this will be a good thing worth being happy about.

6. Romantic interest from the perspective of leisure life:

You can tell whether a person is interesting by asking him what he does on holidays. During holidays, I play online games at home until late at night and then sleep until I wake up naturally. It’s the same activity over and over again with almost no changes. If his leisure life alone is so boring, how can you expect any romance in the love between two people? Unless you are also a fujoshi who stays at home, the two of you can turn into fossils and still be together.

7. Judging living habits and personality from clothing and belongings:

A person's taste and personality can be seen from his clothes and appearance. People who always wear suits and trousers tend to be more reserved. If you like casual clothes and jeans, you may be more casual and comfortable. A man who dresses casually and without any thoughts may even ask you to buy his underwear in the future. A man who wears clothes even when they are unraveling, fading, or pilling is frugal by nature, and I'm afraid he secretly desires a woman to take care of him. People who admire famous brands but only buy knockoffs tend to have flamboyant personalities. From a man's personal belongings, you can also infer that he might be a 3C addict, a hipster, a otaku, etc.

Love is often blind, but it is better to open your eyes and observe a few details first, rather than falling in love and then lamenting that you were blind!

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