Educated physical characteristics

Educated physical characteristics

1. Don’t speak loudly

In the countryside, because the sky and earth are wide and the noise is loud, which affects the propagation of sound, rural people usually speak in higher voices. The living environment of city dwellers is different from that of rural residents, and their voices are generally lower. Now that you live in the city, don’t speak in too high a voice, otherwise people will call you a “country bumpkin.” Although it’s not an insult to you, it will affect your image.

2. Don’t speak too fast

If you speak too fast, firstly, others won't understand you; secondly, it will sound like you are arguing, giving people the impression that you love quarreling; thirdly, speaking too fast will affect your own thinking. So don't speak too fast. The advantage of slowing down your speaking speed is that it makes you sound more magnetic and appear deeper.

3. Don’t interrupt others

If you suddenly interrupt someone while they are speaking and start talking, it is disrespectful to them. If you don't respect others, will they respect you? The correct approach is to use interjections such as "What's next?", "What happened later?", "No wonder.", "So that's how it is" and so on when others are speaking, so that others feel that you are listening to them carefully and that what they say is very interesting. Only in this way will others have a good impression of you.

4. Try not to speak first

This refers specifically to times when meetings are held and issues are discussed. If you speak later, you will have heard everyone's opinions, and you will learn from their strengths and add your own opinions. The impression given by others will definitely be: this person is not a simple person. If you are the one who must speak first, you must learn to throw forth some ideas to stimulate discussion. Now you should pay attention to how leaders and meeting hosts start the speech, and then you will gradually learn to speak first. In short, try not to speak first.

5. Be patient and wait for others to finish speaking

No matter how unreasonable what others say, no matter how harsh their opinions are, no matter how brilliant your insights are, you must patiently wait for others to finish speaking. First, it is based on politeness. Second, if you don’t finish listening to what others say, how can you know that what they say is unreasonable? Third, others may say something harsh just to irritate you. If you interrupt them, you will fall into their trap. 4. You think your opinions are brilliant, but others may not agree with you. Therefore, you should patiently wait for others to finish speaking. This is the same as not interrupting others.

6. Don’t be bossy

Some people like to use gestures when they speak, which is understandable, but gestures should only be used occasionally. Speaking with gestures is different from speaking with gesticulations. If you speak with gesticulations, the difference between speaking with gestures and speaking with gestures is huge. It is the most uneducated thing to point fingers at others. To avoid being bossy, try not to use gestures when speaking. No gestures will affect your conversation.

7. Don’t be impatient

Some people, when they hear other people's opinions that are different from their own, or when other people's words are accusations against them, immediately become angry and act as if they are angry with others. This is the most despised behavior. What's there to be upset about if other people's opinions are different from yours? If other people's words are accusing you, there are several situations. First, you have misunderstood them, and they did not intend to blame you. If you get angry with them, aren't you wronging them? Second, it is other people's mistake unintentionally, and if you get angry with them, it seems that you are narrow-minded; third, other people deliberately provoke you, and if you get angry with them, aren't you just falling into their trap. So no matter what, don't be impatient.

8. Don’t look around

When listening to someone or talking to someone, you must look into their eyes. Lowering your eyebrows and looking around shows a lack of confidence, and looking around is impolite, both of which are taboos when speaking. You may really hate the person who is speaking, or his words are boring, or you are distracted by something important. If you have to listen to him, don't look around. If you really don't want to listen to him, you might as well tell him directly, "I am sorry." In any case, don't look around.

9. Think before you speak. If you can avoid saying it, don’t say it.

People who know how to speak think before they speak. As long as you think for a few seconds or even a minute before you speak, not only will you not speak in a colloquial way, but you will also avoid interrupting others, speaking loudly, or using gestures. When several people are discussing a problem together, one person speaks and another speaks. You may think that if you don't speak, it will not be your turn, especially when you have already thought about it and you think your words are particularly important. If you don't speak, it will cause trouble in solving the problem. It doesn’t matter, they will always stop. If someone else has said what you want to say, you don’t have to say it. If you don't speak, others won't look down on you. If you speak late, others will only respect you more. There is an old saying that goes "A noble man speaks slowly", which is exactly what this means.

10. Don’t be self-deprecating

Others may be wealthy, may hold an important position, may be well-educated, may have many skills, may be good-looking, or may come from a wealthy family. These are all his, what do they have to do with me? Give him the necessary respect, but there is no need to feel inferior to him. Maybe you need something from him, maybe everyone says you are not as good as him, it doesn’t matter, every man has his own strengths and weaknesses, and he also has aspects that he is not as good as you. Think about it, in this world, there are thousands to millions times more people who are not as good as you than those who are better than you, so there is really no need to feel inferior. As long as you don't feel inferior when speaking, you will also get rid of the inferiority complex in your mind. Speaking neither humbly nor arrogantly is the key to extraordinary conversation.

11. Don’t tell lies

Everyone tells lies, and often uses white lies as an excuse to exonerate themselves. This is not a big mistake, but the best way is not to tell lies. The advantage of not telling lies is that it can make you confident and justified. Even if you did something wrong, what's the harm in admitting it frankly? If you really can't do it, let me tell you a way not to tell lies: shut your mouth and don't speak. Otherwise, Wang would just look around and talk about something else.

12. Don’t try to show off

Everyone wants to stand out, but never show off yourself through words, otherwise others will misunderstand that you are showing off. Why bother?

13. Don’t swear or swear

In order to prove their innocence or show that they are telling the truth, some people often swear when they speak, which is the most uncultured behavior. Say what you want to say, believe it or not, and never swear. Swearing and being impatient are the same problem.

14. Don’t be afraid of a dull moment

When talking to people, I haven't thought about what to say and other people don't say anything either. Everyone is speechless and the conversation becomes awkward. If you haven't figured out how to encourage others to speak, don't be afraid of a dull silence and don't speak rashly just to avoid a dull silence. It's okay to be cold for a while, it's no big deal. If you speak rashly, it may be difficult to take it back. Too much talk leads to mistakes!

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