What is the saying about giving birth to a boy as the first child? Women who give birth to a boy as the first child have good luck.

Having children is a stage that every girl has to go through. Many mothers hope that their first baby will be a boy during pregnancy. If not, they will be depressed for a long time. This is because there is a saying among the people that women who give birth to a boy as their first child have good luck. So, is this saying correct? You can all come to the physiognomy column to learn more!

Women who give birth to a boy as their first child are blessed with good fortune. Why do we say that? In fact, this is all due to the influence of real life. Although men and women are equal now, the idea that only having sons in the family can pass on the family line is still retained in many places.

Lanlan, who was born in 1990, has two children. The eldest is a boy, and the second is a daughter, making the family a "good one". When asked how she felt about having a boy as her first child, Lanlan answered frankly that first of all there was no pressure to hasten the birth. Because Lanlan was born in the countryside, the older generation in her family mostly adhered to the old-fashioned idea of ​​"continuing the family line", and Lanlan gave birth to a boy as her first child, so she naturally avoided the pressure of having a second child. So her two children are six years apart in age. Lanlan said that she had already planned to have a second child. If the first child was a daughter, she was afraid she would not be able to do as she wished.

If a boy is the eldest son in the family, he will be more calm and responsible in character, and will be better at taking care of others, which is conducive to cultivating the boy's spirit of hard work and endurance. Moreover, after having a second child, as the older brother, he will consciously take on the responsibility of protecting his younger siblings, which is very helpful in cultivating his son's masculinity.

Comments from netizens:

@心心相印: My husband’s poor relative had a daughter as his first child, and had two ultrasound scans for the second child just to have a son. The poorer they are, the more they care about having a boy in the family.

@无言的严重: I think so too. My first child was a son, so I was very relaxed about the second one, but it turned out to be a daughter. If my first child was a daughter, I would have been nervous about the second one.

@Waiting in This Life: I took my children back to my parents’ home. My neighbors from my mother’s side told me that I was very lucky because my first child was a son. I had a very good life, unlike me who gave birth to two daughters! In fact, sometimes it is not oneself who is looking forward to having a son or a daughter, but the parents' expectation. Like this neighbor, her parents-in-law are very patriarchal, which makes her nervous.

It’s not about whether it’s better to have a boy or a girl. After all, you can’t decide what to have. It’s a fate determined by God. But please don’t hold the idea that only boys can carry on the family line, and don’t treat boys as treasures and girls as grass.

No matter it is a boy or a girl, parental education is the most important. It is more important than anything else to raise a child to have a conscience, a sense of righteousness, the courage to take responsibility and to have courage.

The above is all about what it means to have a boy as the first child and why women who have a boy as the first child have good fortune. For more physiognomy information, please pay attention to the Dream Interpreter website.