Improve your social skills by using physiognomy

Improve your social skills by using physiognomy

In reality, Mr. Taiming often sees some people who are very capable, but unfortunately they lack social skills and cannot give full play to their abilities, and gradually develop into complaining about everything. Emotional instability means either dying in silence or exploding in silence, but the result of the explosion is often another low point. Or turn to crime. For example, the Ma Jiajue incident that shocked the whole country. In the ancient "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there is the death of Yang Xiu. Yang Xiu was so talented, but he did not succeed, but went to heaven. The Jade Emperor could not tolerate Sun Wukong, and he probably could not tolerate him either. Rather than saying that Cao Cao hated Yang Xiu for ruining his fame, it would be more accurate to say that it was Yang Xiu's psychological problem. He is talented but unable to develop his own career, and seems unwilling to be a subordinate of Cao Cao. In fact, there are many people like Yang Xiu in real life. Rather than saying that he is aloof and arrogant, it is better to say that he has poor social skills. The psychological quality is not up to standard. Psychological adjustment requires a process. For example, no matter how good the car is, you will only step on the accelerator and change gears when driving on a steep slope. I'm afraid I'll just have to turn off the engine. It is better to prepare before going uphill and reach the peak of life.

Everyone has his or her own personality and likes and dislikes. Many conflicts arise from a lack of understanding between each other, which leads to many misunderstandings. If we can understand the personalities of the people around us in a timely manner and find appropriate ways to get along with people of different personalities, there will be fewer disharmonious factors in getting along with each other. Explain the personality characteristics of different people from the perspective of physiognomy, so that you can have a reference when getting along with them.

1. Triangle face: punctual, not procrastinating, helpful and respectful

People with triangular faces are generally stingy, impatient and enthusiastic. Be punctual when you are with him, cooperate with him as much as possible when doing things, and help him deal with the aftermath. Because people with triangular faces tend to start things well but end badly, so if you are with them, you must be responsible for helping them deal with the aftermath.

2. Rectangular face: respect his talent, do not disturb his work, and give him private space

Rectangular people tend to develop slowly. They like to do things slowly and step by step, and they are willing to work hard without complaint. Therefore, you should respect them and don't rush or disturb them, so that they can exert their own strength.

3. Square face: softness overcomes hardness, more practical and less dreamy

People with square faces are law-abiding and upright. They also hope that others will not be careless, and they give people a serious and stereotyped impression. Don't be forceful when dealing with people with square faces. Try to get along with them in a more practical way. When giving gifts, it is better to give something practical instead of fancy ones.

4. Round face: pretend to be dumber than him and express opinions moderately

People with round faces are very smart, quick to react, sharp-minded, easy to get along with, and good at speaking. When getting along with a round-faced person, you don't need to compete with him in intelligence, just express your opinions appropriately.

5. Oval face: Say more good things and support his opinions

Oval-shaped people are lively and talented, but they lack persistence in doing things. Therefore, when you get along with them, say nice things to them, support them as much as possible, and encourage them.

The face is the most direct expression of good and evil. A person with a kind heart will have bright and colorful eyes, act in a positive way, and be cautious while a person with an evil heart will have vicious thoughts and deep tear troughs under his eyes. When the three yin and three yang are sunken, it means that the mind is not right and is controlled by desires, and one often does many things secretly to harm others and benefit oneself.

If one is treacherous and calculating towards others, there will be blue corners of his mouth. If one has many greedy and thieving thoughts, his eyes will be slanted. This is the case when he looks at people and things. If the eyes are not straight, the heart is also not straight.

He has a pointed mouth, sunken cheeks and ears shaped like a rat. He does things by any means necessary, secretly harming others, selling out his family, friends, subordinates and children for fame and fortune, and is cunning and deceitful.

If there is red or yellow in the eyes, it means that the person is a bad person and is rude and unreasonable. If the face is pale and dry, with many blue veins, you must not approach such a person, as you will be hurt by him if you get close to him.

The above is an introduction on how to use physiognomy to improve your social skills. For more content, please pay attention to the Ziwei Mansion physiognomy special topic.