What are the different types of handshakes according to palmistry?

Handshake form

1. Tendon-breaking and bone-breaking type

When shaking hands, grasp the other person's palm tightly and squeeze it hard, as if you want to crush the other person's hand until it is crushed, causing the other person unbearable pain. Such people are energetic, confident, and tend to be arbitrary. Most of them are arrogant and like to show off their strength and competitiveness. But his organizational and leadership abilities are outstanding. A strong handshake is often used by extroverts. They are enthusiastic, cheerful, highly confident, have a strong desire for power and control, and always want to dominate others. Studies have shown that people with a firm handshake are often able to win the favor of others, but only if it is done appropriately and in moderation. If you use too much force and cause the other person unbearable pain, it will inevitably make him unhappy.

2. Gentle and submissive

Shake hands with your palm facing up or to the upper left. This type of person is often weak in character, in a passive and disadvantaged position, and is relatively humble, approachable, and not stubborn. He or she is relatively respectful and admiring of others, and may even be somewhat afraid of them. The handshake is weak and frail, which is often adopted by introverts. They are cowardly, shy and sensitive. They are often at a disadvantage in interpersonal relationships and are willing to give up control. Of course, some people with special jobs, such as surgeons, artists, or people with arthritis, may also adopt a gentle handshake. Therefore, it cannot be generalized.

3. Calm and focused

When shaking hands, use appropriate strength, steady movements, and look the other person in the eye. People of this type are strong and frank, responsible and reliable, thoughtful and good at reasoning, and can often provide constructive advice to others. Whenever difficulties arise, he can always quickly come up with feasible solutions and is trusted by others.

4. Careless

When shaking hands, give only a gentle touch. This type of people are easy-going and open-minded, never paranoid, quite free and easy in games, humble and follow the crowd. Or when you shake hands with him, you will find that his fingers are weak and powerless, and his hand cannot be tightly grasped. Such people are mostly pessimistic.

5. Use both hands

That is, while shaking hands with right hands, it is customary to use the left hand to shake the other person's back of the hand, forearm, upper arm or shoulder. The higher the grip, the more friendly the person appears. This type of person is warm and warm, honest and reliable, trusts others, has a good heart, is most open with friends, and hopes to use the opportunity of a handshake to convey his consideration and goodwill to the other party. His emotions are shown on his face and his likes and dislikes are clear. It should be noted that this way of handshake is only applicable between friends with a certain emotional foundation.

6. Long-hold type

A person who holds the other person's hand for a long time until the other person finishes speaking. Maybe he is interested in you, otherwise he is a good rapper. This type of person is emotionally rich, enjoys making friends, and once they establish a friendship, they are loyal. Of course, if the other party holds your hand tightly before the negotiation, it may be that he is testing you, hoping to gain the upper hand in momentum and thus take the lead in the subsequent negotiations.

7. Pinching fingers

When shaking hands, only use your fingers to grasp the other person without your palms touching each other. This type of person has a calm yet sensitive personality and is easily excited. However, he is kind-hearted and compassionate. When women shake hands with men, they often adopt this method to show reserve and stability. However, there are obvious problems with this way of shaking hands: if the other person is a feminist, such a handshake will cause the other person to feel disgusted and think that he or she is looked down upon; if such a handshake is done between people of the same gender, it will seem a bit cold and unfamiliar; if it is done by a distinguished person, it is intended to show off one's own "dignity".

8. Up and down swing type

When shaking hands, hold the other person tightly and shake up and down continuously. Such people are extremely optimistic and full of hope for life. Because of their positivity and enthusiasm, they often become the center of attention and are loved and admired by others. But at the same time, it is easy to leave people with a bad impression of being hypocritical and attention-seeking, which is discouraging.

9. Avoid handshake

Some people don't want to shake hands with others from the bottom of their hearts. Most of them are introverted, shy, conservative and cautious, but they are extremely sincere to others. They generally don't give their feelings easily, but once they establish a friendship, they will be loyal to it. This is true for both friendship and love.

10. Sweaty palms

Sweating palms when shaking hands is mostly due to excessive nervousness, lack of confidence or excitement, which leads to increased blood pressure and pulse, and abnormal sweat gland secretion. For example, people often have sweaty palms when they lie. However, it should also be noted that 5% of the world's population suffers from hyperhidrosis of the palms. The reason why their palms sweat is not due to emotional fluctuations, but is determined by genetic genes.

11. Dragonfly skimming the water

When shaking hands, as soon as you touch the other person, you quickly withdraw your hand, as if you are just going through the motions, which gives people the feeling that you lack sincerity. However, this type of handshake occurs more often between people of the opposite sex. It is possible that the party making the invitation lacks confidence and is not sure whether the other party will respond, so this quick decision approach is adopted to avoid an embarrassing situation due to excessive nervousness.

12. Pull arm type

Pull the other person's hand to your side and hold it. Such people are often overly humble, submissive and self-deprecating in front of others, and lack the spirit of independence and courage to act.

13. Peer-to-peer

That is, when shaking hands, the palm of the hand extended is facing left. This type of person is more friendly and may be an equal competitor who follows the rules of the game.

14. Dead Fish

That is, when shaking hands, you extend a hand that has no strength, texture, or positive information. This kind of person is either cowardly by nature or cold and ruthless towards others, and is negative and arrogant in his dealings with others.

15. Controlling

Hold the other person's hand with your palm facing down or to the left. This type of person wants to express his or her superior position, and is generally characterized by clear and crisp speech, decisive actions, and high self-confidence. Once a decision is made, it is difficult to change the viewpoint and the style of work is not very democratic.

16. Indecisive

This type of people often create funny and embarrassing situations. That's when you extend your hand, but his hand is still in your pocket, and he doesn't extend his hand until you awkwardly pull it back. It is obvious that such people lack judgment.

17. Conservative

When shaking hands, this type of person is reluctant to stretch his arm, his elbow is bent at a right angle, and his hand is close to the body, fully demonstrating his cautious and conservative character.

18. Obsessive

No matter why, a person who keeps shaking hands shows his inner anxiety and inferiority.

19. Careless

Treating handshakes as a formality shows that the person is insincere, careless and untrustworthy.