In a 10-minute conversation, the average person tells three lies. We recognize 250,000 facial expressions, but this is only a small part of body language. It is these subtle body languages that determine whether we control others or are controlled by others when interacting with them. An unintentional glance, an inadvertent smile, or a subtle movement may determine your success or failure - assuming this is a business negotiation worth tens of millions of dollars. Next, Ziweifu Zhouyi.com will talk about the common gestures used when lying. 1. Covering your mouth with your hands Subconsciously covering your mouth with your hands means that the liar is trying to restrain himself from telling lies. Sometimes people cover their mouths with a few fingers or a clenched fist, but the meaning is the same. Some people will pretend to cough to cover up their gesture of covering their mouth. One of the most unsettling gestures for a conference speaker is to see an audience member covering their mouth while you are speaking, as it means they think you may be hiding something. In this situation, you should stop speaking and ask the audience, does anyone have any questions? Or I find that some friends don’t agree with my point of view, let’s discuss it together. It is worth noting that the gesture of the audience crossing their arms over their chest has the same meaning as the gesture of covering their mouth. 2. Touch your nose with your hand. The gesture of touching your nose is usually to rub the lower edge of the nose quickly with your hand a few times, sometimes even just a light touch. Just like covering the mouth, when the speaker touches his nose it means that he is covering up a lie, and when the listener makes this gesture it means that he doubts what the speaker is saying. Scientists at the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, USA, found that when people lie, chemicals called catecholamines are released, causing cells inside the nasal cavity to swell. Scientists have also revealed that lying can also increase blood pressure. Increased blood pressure causes the nose to swell, which in turn triggers the nerve endings in the nasal cavity to transmit a tingling sensation, so people can only frequently rub their noses with their hands to relieve the itching symptoms. American neuroscientists have studied Bill Clinton's testimony to the jury regarding the Lewinsky sex scandal and found that Clinton rarely touched his nose when he was telling the truth. But whenever Clinton lied, his brow would inadvertently frown slightly before the lie came out, and he touched his nose every four minutes, a total of 26 times during his testimony. However, we must keep in mind that the gesture of touching the nose needs to be interpreted in conjunction with other body language. Sometimes people make this gesture just because they are allergic to pollen or have a cold. What is a normal itchy nose? A simple itchy nose often only triggers the single gesture of rubbing the nose repeatedly, which has nothing to do with the content, frequency and rhythm of the entire conversation. 3. Rubbing eyes with hands When a child doesn't want to see something, he will cover his eyes with his hands. The brain uses the eye rubbing gesture to attempt to prevent the eyes from witnessing deception, suspicion, and unpleasant things, or to avoid facing the person who is being deceived. Movie actors often use the gesture of rubbing eyes to express the hypocrisy of their characters. A man will often rub his eyes vigorously when making the I don't want to look at it gesture; if he is trying to cover up a big lie, he will most likely turn his face away. In comparison, women are less likely to rub their eyes, and they generally just give a gentle touch below their eyes. This is partly because ladylike manners restrict them from making rude gestures, and partly to avoid ruining their makeup. However, like men, women also turn their faces away when they lie to avoid the gaze of the person being told. 4. Scratching ears with hands. In order to avoid being scolded by their parents, children will cover their ears with both hands. The gesture of scratching ears is the adult version of this body language. There are many variations of scratching the ear, including rubbing the back of the auricle, inserting the fingertips into the ear canal to pick the ear, pulling the earlobe, folding the entire auricle forward to cover the ear hole, etc. People may also scratch their ears when they feel they have heard enough or want to speak. Scratching the ears can also mean that the person is in an anxious state. Prince Charles often scratches his ears and rubs his nose when he enters a room full of guests or passes by a bustling crowd. These actions revealed his inner nervousness and anxiety. Yet we never see Prince Charles making these gestures in the relative safety and privacy of his car. But in Italy, scratching the ears is often seen as a sign of effeminacy and even as a symbol of homosexuality. 5. Scratch your neck with your hands. The gesture for scratching your neck is: use your index finger (usually the index finger of the hand used for writing) to scratch the area on the side of your neck below the earlobe. Our observations show that people typically scratch with their index finger about five times each time they make this gesture. The number of index finger movements is rarely less than 5 or more than 5. This gesture expresses doubt and uncertainty, which is equivalent to the person saying, I'm not sure whether I agree with your opinion. The inconsistency is particularly evident when the spoken language and this gesture are inconsistent. For example, if someone says I understand how you feel very well, but at the same time he is scratching his neck, we can conclude that he actually does not understand. 6. Pulling the collar when lying will cause a tingling sensation in the sensitive facial and neck nerve tissues, so people have to eliminate this discomfort by rubbing or scratching. This phenomenon not only explains why people scratch their necks when they are confused, it also explains why liars frequently pull at their collars when they are worried that their lies will be discovered. This is because once a liar senses the listener's suspicion, the increased blood pressure will cause sweat to form in the neck. When a person feels angry or frustrated, he or she will pull the collar away from his or her neck so that cool air can flow into the clothes and cool down the anger in his or her heart. When you see someone doing this action, you might as well say to him, could you please say it again, okay? Or please just say what you want to say, okay? This will expose the person who is trying to lie. 7. Putting fingers between lips The gesture of putting fingers between lips is closely related to sucking mother's nipples in infancy. It is a subconscious desire for the sense of security in mother's arms. People often make this gesture when they feel stressed. Young children will put their thumb or index finger in their mouth as a substitute for their mother's nipple, while adults will put their fingers between their lips, or smoke, hold a pipe or pen, bite on glasses frames, chew gum, etc. Another perspective on gestures when lying <br />In general, out of anxiety or nervousness, liars will always unconsciously blink their eyes, scratch their noses, and the back of their heads. In fact, this is a misunderstanding. Liars intentionally control their blinking and keep their bodies relatively still when trying to conceal the truth, new research suggests. A research report by British scientists pointed out that people tend to stay still rather than move around nervously when they lie. People assume that liars fidget and make frequent movements, but research shows that this is not the case. Psychologist Samantha Mann says that when lying, people have to think harder than usual, and when we are lost in thought, we tend to reduce body movements to keep our minds focused. The findings have important implications for police, employers and suspicious couples - it could help them avoid misreading nervousness as dishonesty and missing out on more reliable cues. Researchers have found that certain gestures can also indicate whether a person is lying - and when liars do move, they use exaggerated gestures to cover up their lies, such as stretching their arms or using rhythmic hand gestures to emphasize their words. Psychologists tested 130 volunteers, asking them to make a series of mixed true and false statements, and found that several types of gestures change in the situation of lying. Figurative gestures, such as making a heart shape to express love or spreading the hands to illustrate size, increased in frequency by 25 percent when people were lying. Signature gestures give direct information, such as a thumbs-up to indicate yes and an outstretched palm pressing down to indicate calmness, and are more likely to appear when people are lying. Adaptive gestures that touch the nose, hair or other parts of the body can reduce the amount of lies by 15% to 20% compared to telling the truth. (This view is contrary to the above view of touching the nose, rubbing the eyes, scratching the neck and ears. As for which view you agree with, please decide for yourself) These laws can successfully explain some famous lies. For example, in April 2003, Mohammed Saeed Al-Sahaf, then Iraqi Minister of Information, made a typical iconic gesture during his speech - when the Iraqi army had already retreated to avoid US artillery fire, Al-Sahaf stretched out his arms, with his palms facing forward forcefully, and said: Baghdad is safe. Another famous case is about rhythmic gestures. In 1998, then-US President Clinton made rhythmic gestures and said word by word: I did not have sexual relations with Ms. Lewinsky. The above is all the content of "What gestures do people use when they lie" compiled by the editor. For more exciting content about palmistry, please follow Ziweifu Xiongzhang account. |
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