How to be a good and sensible daughter-in-law

Everyone knows that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to deal with. As a woman, from the moment you get your partner, you have to face the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. How the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along directly affects the relationship between husband and wife. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not get along or have misunderstandings, it can easily become the fuse of quarrels between husband and wife, and may even lay the hidden danger of divorce. However, the contact and relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are indeed difficult to be perfect. As the saying goes: Being a daughter-in-law is very difficult.

Colleagues, friends and bosses can all choose, but mother-in-law has no choice. Therefore, if you want to love the house and the dog, you must be more sensible, know yourself and the enemy, and you will win every battle. How can we know ourselves and our enemies? First of all, you need to learn from physiognomy what type of person your mother-in-law is, understand her personality, and avoid the important issues to deepen the relationship between you. Maybe your mother-in-law will accept your advice.

Face shape analysis

1. Long face

Mothers-in-law with long and narrow faces tend to be stubborn, fussy and irritable. She herself is not good at housework, but she requires you to follow her wishes, otherwise she will complain all day long. In this case, you have to try your best to understand her temperament, habits and preferences, and prescribe the right medicine. Once you can grasp her mind and adapt to her, it will be easy for her to establish a harmonious relationship with you.

2. Round face

Mothers-in-law with rounder faces tend to be extroverted, generous, lazy, and the type who love comfort and enjoyment. Although they are not particular about details and generally have good relationships with others, unfortunately they are quite emotional and often act on their feelings. This type of mother-in-law is easier to coax, just treat her like a Persian cat; read her mood, cater to her preferences, take time to invite her for tea, and occasionally make soup for her. When it comes to work, you do it; share good things with her, and she will look at you differently and give you all her love.

3. Square face

People with square faces tend to be principled in their attitudes towards people and things, and are also practical in their ideals. If your mother-in-law is of this type, you should act more down-to-earth in front of her and be more serious and practical in your dealings. When doing housework, don't be too careless. Be practical and principled, and she will appreciate it. Therefore, there is no need to put in too much superficial effort. When she is present, you should not be too relaxed even when talking and laughing with your husband, and your behavior should not be too casual. You should pay attention to your manners, otherwise she will think you are frivolous, impetuous and disrespectful. She won't blame her own son, but will only blame you for not being able to take good care of your husband, and will even say that you are not doing a good job in front of your children.

Other facial features

In addition to getting to know your mother-in-law through her face shape, there are other facial features that can reflect her personality and mentality. These are also good ways to help you further understand your mother-in-law and achieve the advantage of knowing yourself and your enemy.

1. Blue veins appear on the face

The appearance of blue veins on her cheekbones, corners of her mouth, and between the bridge of her nose indicates that she has a strong temper, is easily irritated, and is extremely impatient. Then, you should know that prevention is better than cure. Learn to read people's expressions and be one step ahead of her in everything. Then she will admire your ability and intelligence, be proud of you, and even more so, admire her son for having the foresight to marry such a smart person like you.

2. Protruding eyes and lips that do not cover teeth

Such a mother-in-law is extremely talkative, talks incessantly, and likes to express her inner thoughts and confide in others. You have two ways to deal with it. The positive way is that you should learn to be eloquent, know how to listen to her and comfort her, then the two of you will not only be a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also close friends. The negative approach is to let her talk and ignore her regardless of whether she makes sense or not.

3. Mouth is big enough to hold a fist, nose is high and cheekbones are wide

The mother-in-law is a talkative person. She only has her own say and you have no right to speak. She is also very concerned about her reputation and mentally requires her daughter-in-law to be as obedient and well-behaved as her own children and to obey her absolutely. Although you don't have to blindly follow her, you should give her the opportunity to show off how obedient and filial your wife is in front of relatives and friends. If your mother-in-law has this feature of a big mouth and long cheekbones, you will understand the fun in the future!

4. Upturned face with upturned eye ends and exposed brow bones

As the saying goes: A girl with a raised face attracts discussion. What’s more, it is even more unbearable to have a mother-in-law who looks up at you. Even your mother-in-law is so arrogant and snobbish, and the upturned corners of her eyes make it even worse. He is very picky about everything and has a natural dove-like attitude and looks down on others. You must never show weakness to this type of mother-in-law, otherwise she will look down on you for the rest of your life and you will never be able to be reincarnated. Especially when it comes to matters concerning your in-laws' family, it is not advisable to talk too much about any issue, as both good and bad things will be criticized.

5. The nose is hooked and drooped, the head is stretched and the neck is retracted

This type of mother-in-law is very stingy and calculative. She will only spend your money and not spend money for you. Even if she spends 1 cent for you, she will always talk about it, and everyone on the street will know that she is generous and has helped her daughter-in-law with '1 cent'. Therefore, if you want to get money from her or borrow money from her in an emergency without giving her anything in return, it is like trying to get the skin of a tiger. On the contrary, it is easy to buy off this type of mother-in-law with money, which will benefit you a lot. You must show filial piety to her during the New Year and other festivals, and be tactful in daily life.

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