If a man says this, it means he has something to hide.

If you want to survey girls about what they hate to hear from boys the most. "If you think so, I can't help it." If I'm not ranked first, I lose. When you are full of grievances and anger, and the other party does not want to explain or comfort you, and instead says to you in a cool and pretentious manner, "If you think so, there is nothing I can do about it." How do you feel? Anyway, I want to chop him up a hundred thousand times.

A while ago, Pang Ling discovered that there was always a girl in the first few names on her boyfriend’s WeChat account.

Pang Ling became unhappy and asked her boyfriend why he always chatted with her. Her boyfriend said that they were colleagues in the same office and they often contacted each other at work and there was nothing wrong.

One day, Pang Ling went to a company dinner with her boyfriend. When they were leaving, one of the female colleagues pinched her boyfriend. Pang Ling couldn't stand it. She didn't understand why such ambiguous and intimate behavior would occur between ordinary colleagues.

On the way home, I became angrier and angrier and started to lose my temper. In fact, I originally hoped that my boyfriend could comfort me and give me reassurance. Then my boyfriend said:

"What does her pinching me have to do with me? Don't let your imagination run wild. Is it fun to keep saying that? If you insist on thinking this way, what can I do?"

How do you think a girl should respond when a bucket of cold water is poured on her head? It was something that could have been resolved with just a few words, but ended up being a cold war for a whole week, and it really hurt our feelings.

When couples quarrel or have disputes, they must first pay attention to the "correct attitude". This "correct attitude" means: "Don't let your imagination run wild. I only have you in my heart. I will feel bad if you get angry. Please calm down first."

Then think about logical problems, explain things clearly, present facts and reason. If you really have nothing to hide, what is there to be afraid of? A smart man knows how to minimize the damage caused by a quarrel between lovers. Explanation is the most convenient and quickest way to end a fight.

The boy takes a passive and evasive attitude, and is unwilling to be more patient and tolerant to convince his girlfriend with his own reasons, nor is he willing to bow his head and apologize to appease his girlfriend.

Give a cold response: "If you think so, there's nothing I can do about it." The bottom line is that it’s either because he has low emotional intelligence or because he doesn’t love you that much and is too lazy to waste words with you.

Dongzi called me at twelve o'clock in the evening and said, "I must break up with that bastard!"

I feel helpless. Based on the secret history of Dongzi's boyfriend, he has long been considered a scumbag in the eyes of us sisters. But Dongzi is soft-hearted and unwilling to let him go, and is hurt again and again.

"What's the reason this time?"

"During the Chinese New Year, he met a girl while playing games in his hometown. The two of them had a video chat, and the girl asked, 'Where are you? I'll go find you.'"

"How do you know that?"

"We chatted about it, and he said he rejected the girl and asked her to come to him. But I was still very angry and got mad at him. He said it was just a casual chat, nothing happened, and there was no need to make a big deal about it. I said it was just flirting! He got upset and said if you think that way, there's nothing I can do about it, and then he left."

Students, this is where the key point comes in. If you don’t want to be an idiot, you must stay away from scumbags as soon as possible, because high-level scumbags not only do bad things without any feelings, but also brainwash their girlfriends.

"It's just a normal chat. What's wrong with chatting online? Are you too petty?"

"It's all in the past, so don't worry about it. Don't keep holding on to the past."

He doesn't think it's wrong at all to flirt with other women behind his girlfriend's back. People think this is normal interaction between men and women - if you think so, I can't help it.

It was clearly his fault, but he acted as if asking me to explain was unreasonable and pretentious. It was like eating a mouthful of shit and being unable to swallow it or spit it out.

What you can do with boys who have this kind of inertial thinking is to leave as soon as possible.

Don't fantasize that you are different from other girls, and don't think that others are all wild flowers and you are the true love. Don't fantasize about changing his inherent thinking of the past twenty or thirty years.