A person's upbringing can be seen from his eating habits

Love lies in details, life lies in details, and life is pieced together by small details. Details determine success or failure. We all need to live more refined. The details of eating can reflect a person's upbringing, and the details of being angry can reflect a person's character.

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Eating, while satisfying basic living needs, is endowed with more love, wisdom and meaning. Eating can even become a belief. This is the realm of eating, and also the beauty of eating.

Taiwanese writer Lin Qingxuan said in an article about food, "People always choose what they like, and these preferences are often very close to their own character and nature, so a person's personality can be seen from the food he eats." And I think that a person's personality can be seen not only in what he eats, but also in his attitude towards eating, and this personality is education.

When I was in college, I remember that in the hot summer, the most thirst-quenching thing was the big bright red and green watermelon. One day, several girls in the class bought a watermelon after physical education class and sat together to cool off and quench their thirst. In the dormitory, several people were sweating all over. After they started eating, they politely avoided the middle part of the watermelon with spoons and dug into the tempting flesh along the watermelon rind. They also gave in to each other and said, "Eat more," "Eat faster."

At this time, a girl scooped a big piece from the middle of the watermelon, put it into her mouth and said to the girls like us who were pushing each other, "You are stupid, the middle of the watermelon is the sweetest! Haha." Looking at that smug look, no one spoke. A few people shook their heads slightly, said nothing, and continued to eat the watermelon next to them.

Great wisdom can be seen from small details. A person who only cares about himself when eating will make people feel unreliable.

Eating is not only a culture, it can also be a kind of cultivation. The simple act of eating presents many different attitudes. Some people eat in a rough manner, some eat elegantly, some eat alone, some like to share, some ignore etiquette, and some are considerate...

A person's character can be seen from every little detail in life. Although this cannot be said to be completely correct, it does make sense to a certain extent. A person's upbringing is subtly influenced by his parents' education and upbringing, reflects a person's family culture, and the formation of his own habits determines his lifelong upbringing. Therefore, a person's every word and action reveals his or her upbringing and taste.

Eating is a very simple thing, but this simple thing is also an extremely serious thing. It releases the character and soul in your bones. Your upbringing can be exposed inadvertently.

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Man has seven emotions, each of which operates independently. But emotions can often reflect a person's character like a magnifying glass.

Especially when people are furious, impulse becomes a devil, controlling those layers of cover-up that truly expose your character.

An and Hui are colleagues. They have a good relationship and often eat together. As a result, there was a dispute and conflict of interest at work. An, who was always gentle and polite, ran to Hui's desk angrily, with a ferocious face, and attacked Hui mercilessly.

Hui ignored An's rage and abuse, said "You really leave me speechless", and then left her workstation silently.

From then on, An hated Hui and often talked about Hui's "bad deeds" in front of others. Later, even when the news reached Hui's ears, Hui chose not to argue, not to debate, or to ignore it, and just did her own job well.

And try to stay away from An.

As a result, Hui was recommended by a headhunter to a large company with a high salary because of her outstanding performance, and her position was greatly promoted. However, An is still standing still and continues to mention Hui's "bad things" from time to time.

Gradually, An was alienated by many people because of his bad character. Talking bad about people all day long.

In fact, arguments at work are a normal thing, but Ann turned it into low-quality public outrage and private exposure, which exposed her true nature that she usually hides and destroyed her own brand.

If you want to be reasonable, you can't make others obey you by raising your voice a few decibels and looking ferocious; nor can you cover up your mistakes by retorting and angrily exposing the other party's history.

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Nowadays, the development of the Internet has given wings to freedom of speech, and all languages ​​can fly in the sky.

If you open a web page at random, you can easily see endless insults from netizens from all over the world.