It's that simple to see through a man

Every little behavior of every person in life can reflect a person's personality traits. The key is whether you know how to observe. It is said that it is better for a girl to marry well than to grow up well. So how can she find a man who is truly right for her? Let's take a look at how to see through a man.

The time he spends with his friends

A man who still maintains a good relationship with his childhood friends must be loyal. However, relationship expert Liz Kelly said that he may be conservative and unwilling to accept new things, so you need to be patient enough.

What sports does he like?

Gender relations expert Steve Nakamoto pointed out that men who like running, swimming and other sports like to be alone; men who like team sports such as football, basketball and baseball like to compete with others; those who do not like sports are more sensitive.

What did he order?

A man who likes to choose home-cooked meals is usually steady and down-to-earth, but he is also a person who does not like adventure. People who like to try new dishes are more spontaneous and like innovation.

His chosen method of communication

Does he prefer to call, email or text? Dr. Jeff Brisson, a psychology professor, believes that people who like to send emails are used to hiding their true selves; people who call are more direct; and people who send text messages want to get your attention at all times.

His driving habits

Leon James, a psychology Ph.D. from the University of Hawaii, pointed out that if a person gets angry and weaves in and out of a line during a traffic jam, it means that he is competitive, outstanding at work, but difficult to get along with; if he appears calm, it proves that he has strong self-control.

His speaking speed

If he talks quickly, it means he is straightforward, energetic, but perhaps a little stubborn. People who speak slowly, act cautiously, and are more rigorous in life.

What kind of clothes does he like you to wear?

If he likes you wearing denim T-shirts or sportswear, then he may like a simple, leisurely life. Men who like you to wear formal or fashionable clothes are usually good at making money and value social prestige. Men who like women wearing sexy short skirts are usually more conceited.

7 unexpected details to see through a man's true feelings

1. After a minor accidental injury

For example, if you accidentally cut your hand while cutting vegetables, or if you step on empty air and fall, I believe every man will care more when such a situation happens. The representative of the love department reminds you to observe his behavior two or three days after the incident: Does he still remember to comfort you? Does he still look distressed? If the wound has not healed yet and he has already forgotten the matter, then his love is more verbal than in his heart.

2. What happens when your phone runs out of battery

When you are out, it is inevitable that your cell phone will run out of battery. This is actually the time that you can best see how much a man loves you. If he really cares about your feelings and is afraid that you worry and care about him, he will use the remaining power to make a call or send a text message to tell you: "My phone is out of battery, I'm here and there!" Or he may use a friend's phone to call you to reassure you. If he didn't think about you at all before his phone ran out of battery, and you foolishly didn't sleep well all night, this doesn't seem very reliable.

3. Willing to listen to your opinion before making a decision

This decision includes a lot, from big things like the location of the house to small things like where to take friends out for dinner in the evening. A man who respects a woman's opinion is a man who knows how to love. Moreover, habits are very important in love. If he always discusses big and small things with you at the beginning, it is very likely that he will do the same after you get married in the future.

4. Attitude towards ex-girlfriend

This is actually very difficult to judge. Every woman hopes that the man in front of her belongs to her completely, but almost all men are friendly to their ex-girlfriends. A man with some wisdom may compare in his mind, while a dumber man may say it directly. Regarding this matter, I think it's okay for them to be friendly as long as they don't cross the line. Of course, it's best to ask him not to mention his ex-girlfriend in front of you. If he can't help but say it often, it only means that he thinks you are more suitable for him than his ex-girlfriend.