See through the other person's personality and psychology from their smile

See through the other person's personality and psychology from their smile

In daily life, it is quite difficult to truly understand a person's character and thoughts. As the saying goes, "The heart is hidden in the belly." Without long-term getting along and getting used to each other, you still won't understand each other's psychology. Japanese social psychologist Masazo Shibuya specializes in non-verbal communication and spatial action science, and found that it is possible to grasp the other person's love psychology as quickly as possible through daily behavior. His book "See His Heart at a Glance - Understand the People You Care About from the Details" introduces a method of analyzing the other person's character through their smile and expressions when you first meet them. If you want to understand the other person's thoughts and personality better, you might as well refer to it.

1. Understand the other person’s subtle psychological state through different smiles

To distinguish a happy smile from a fake smile, just the "smile" itself includes dozens of types, including a smile, a wry smile, a mocking smile, etc. "Laughter" is originally created to ease tension, but laughter like ridicule or pity usually appears in unpleasant situations.

1. People who laugh out loud “Wahahaha” have a cheerful personality and feel relaxed from the heart. The same is true for people who laugh heartily or loudly. However, laughing in unnatural circumstances will make people feel that there are other intentions, such as deliberately showing off how great you are and making people feel that you are generous. Some people appear to be generous on the outside, but they actually have a strong sense of inferiority and insecurity in their heart, which they try to hide by laughing. They are the type of people who have a twisted personality and don't want others to see their true feelings.

2. People who smile with their lips pursed make people feel their superiority. This kind of smile sometimes makes people feel uncomfortable. This kind of person may easily look down on others and not hide it at all. He is not familiar with the subtleties of human psychology and is a person who only cares about himself. Even if they make a mistake, they will pretend that "it's none of my business" and act as if nothing happened, and will make excuses and deny it without caring at all.

3. People who make chuckles are usually gentle people. They are cautious, conservative and good people who will help others behind their backs. If you laugh like this intentionally, there is an element of mockery in it.

4.It is not surprising that some people laugh often. This flattering fake smile is an act of flattering others (called ingratiation). A smiling face that means "I will obey you" indicates that one is feeling uneasy or worried, and has the motive of "please help me" or "please care about me". In addition, there are friendly and desirable messages such as "I want to be friends with you."

Whether the smile comes from the heart can be known by paying attention to the eyes and the whole body. A forced or purposeful smile, usually with a smile on the mouth but not the eyes. In addition, there was no very excited reaction on the body.

A red or pale face indicates uneasiness. A blushing face is evidence of uneasiness. There are many people whose faces suddenly flush when they are speaking in front of others, perhaps because they feel uneasy about their lies being exposed, ashamed of having said something hateful, or shocked by being hit in a sore spot. Your face will turn red when you feel angry or disgusted, or when you are very excited about something. Once you notice that you are blushing, or if someone points it out to you, your face will usually get redder.

When your face turns red, it usually starts from your ears. Even if you can't see any change on his face, you can tell whether his heart is shaken by looking at his ears. People whose faces turn red easily tend to be easily shaken in their thinking and are therefore more likely to shrink back. If a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere is created, the advantages of being a good listener to others will become more obvious. Maybe I'm a little impatient. I find myself blushing and I can't hide it. I am lively and my emotions fluctuate a lot. I think I have a bright personality.

People whose faces turn pale indicate that they have strong fear and anxiety in their hearts. For example, when the situation becomes serious and involves the life or death of oneself or others, the face may not only turn red but also pale. If the degree of anxiety in your heart is strong, your face will turn pale. If your face turns pale due to anger, it is a sign of rage, and if you don't find a solution, the consequences will be serious.

2. Understand the other person’s personality from the curvature of their mouth

People have various facial expressions when they cry or laugh, which are caused by the movement of muscles in the face. Like other muscles, your facial muscles get stronger with more use. The strength of facial muscles can be seen from the normal state of the corners of the mouth.

1. People who usually have upturned corners of their mouths smile very often. They are cheerful and lively, love to talk and are straightforward. They have a strong desire to "be with others" (desire for affinity) and are sociable. Because of their smiling faces, they are seen as "enthusiastic people" and naturally attract many people. He has a good temperament and is able to get along with others, but he is also moody and not loyal enough.

2. People with drooping corners of the mouth are often depressed, negative about everything, have no interest or care for things around them, and rarely show emotions such as joy, anger, sorrow, or happiness. It is difficult to be understood by others and to become friends with them.

3. People who pout the corners of their mouth indicate that they are depressed. Although they don't speak easily in normal times, once they start criticizing or complaining about others, it will be like a flood that breaks through a dam, uncontrollable, and people will stay away from them.

4. People with pointed pouting corners of their mouth have a lot to say in their hearts, and they have no way of not telling others. The content of the words is mostly emotional words of injustice or dissatisfaction. Even when they spoke, they were just jokes without much substance. Even when they talked about important things, their attitude was not very serious.

5. The corners of the mouth are relaxed and drooping, which is a sign of lack of tension. He is unable to respond quickly to the positive actions of others, speaks in a roundabout way, and is also overly particular about details.

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