How to find a good-tempered lover

How to find a good-tempered lover

The orioles are singing on the island in the river. A beautiful lady is a gentleman's dream. Men and women get married and become husband and wife, this is the unchanging form of marriage and love. When a man and a woman get married, they don’t necessarily have to be talented or beautiful, but they must have compatible personalities. Because a temporary match between a man and a woman may not stand the test of time, but permanent harmony of temperament is the capital for them to depend on each other and grow old together.

Therefore, in the relationship between men and women and in the life of a couple, there is a crucial factor, that is, temperament and personality. It is often said that temperament and personality determine destiny, and destiny of course also includes marriage and love, so temperament and personality also determine the happiness of love and marriage. Some men and women are "birds of a feather flock together", hit it off immediately, and are willing to be together; while some men and women are incompatible, do not appreciate each other, go in different directions, and go their separate ways. The harmony of temperament and personality directly affects the emotions, psychology and opinions of two people. Finding a partner with a good temper is actually finding a happy marriage.

So how do you find a partner with a good temper? How can you know whether the other person has a good or bad temper?

If you want to know whether someone has a good or bad temper, the first thing you need to do is look at his or her face. Buddha said, "Appearance is determined by the mind." A person's appearance is the result of his inner cultivation, and appearance is the external manifestation of his temperament.

People with good tempers often show it between their eyebrows and between their lips and teeth, such as kind eyes, happy eyebrows, smiling eyes, delicate eyebrows, thick eyelids, straight nose and square mouth, flat cheekbones, shallow nasolabial folds, a sweet smile, big ears and square face, inward-curled earlobes, a round face, a delicate and fair complexion, no moles on the face, and regular facial features, etc.

People with a bad temper have crooked mouth and eyes, high cheekbones, tightly pressed eyebrows, upturned eyebrows, thin and sharp eyelids, everted earlobes, flat and thin head, sharp face, deep nasolabial folds, rough skin, dark complexion, many moles on the face, and a hideous face, etc. These are all manifestations of a bad temper. To judge whether a person has a good or bad temper, the most important thing to look at is the eyebrows, cheekbones and ears.

The second is to listen to what they say. A person's words are also an expression of his inner world. People with good tempers speak softly and gently, use civilized language, have a gentle voice and a slow tone, are neither impatient nor irritable, and their words flow like a spring and are pleasant to the ear; their tone is sweet and their smile is always on their face. People with bad tempers speak rudely and wildly, are incoherent, impatient and irritable, act decisively, speak quickly and bluntly, and also gesticulate. But just listening is far from enough, you also need to talk to him. By talking for a while, you can understand his temperament and personality from a deeper level.

The third thing is to observe their behavior. A person's behavior and manners are also the outward manifestation of his temperament and personality. People with good tempers behave steadily and dress appropriately. Their every move is steady and balanced. They are graceful when walking, standing, sitting or lying down. They speak and act slowly and methodically. People with bad tempers are decisive and impetuous; they dress casually and unkempt; they are lively and active, gesticulating; their words and actions are disorganized.

Fourth, get along with it. For those people who keep a low profile, you have to spend some time with them before you can truly see through their details and know their true face.

In addition to these, there is another very effective method, which is to look at the person’s eight characters. Just as one can see a person's personality from his zodiac sign, his eight characters can better reveal his temperament and personality. Because a person's temperament and personality are mostly formed at birth, this information will be contained in his birth date and eight characters.

Generally speaking, people who have more conflicts among the five elements in their horoscopes tend to have bad tempers and stubborn personalities. For example, the eight characters of Yichou, Guiwei, Bingzi and Jiawu contain unlucky combinations such as "Chouwei clash", "Ziwu clash" and "Ziwei harm". There are many conflicts between the heavenly stems and earthly branches, which shows that he has a bad temper, a changeable nature and is moody.

People who have more Shenghe in their horoscopes have better tempers and easy-going personalities. For example, the eight characters of Wuchen, Xinyou, Jichou and Jiazi contain auspicious combinations such as "Jiajihe", "Chenyouhe", "Zichouhe" and "Youchoubanhe". There are also many supporting combinations between the stems and branches, indicating a gentle temper, a calm nature and decent manners.

Generally speaking, some evil spirits in the eight characters also show whether a person has a good or bad temper. For example, people with Seven Killings or Owl Seal (Partial Seal) in their horoscope have a bad temper. Because Qi Sha, Xiao Yin and Yin all indicate strong personality, courage and talent, but they also indicate a bad temper and a stubborn character. If one has Kuigang or Yangren as the day seat, or if the day is a day of misfortune, these are all extreme signs of things turning into the opposite when they reach the extreme, and they all indicate a bad temper and a poor personality. For example, the eight characters of Wuwu, Yichou, Gengchen and Bingxu, with Kuigang on the day and Qishashang on the hour, and Chenxu in conflict, and Chou and Wu in harm, so the temper and personality are very bad.

On the contrary, those who have Zhengguan and Zhengyin in their horoscopes, although Zhengguan and Zhengyin indicate personality, courage and talent, they will not abuse them easily, but are more rational and gentle. That is to say, their temperament and personality are used properly in work and career, but are relatively gentle in family and love life. Therefore, those who have the Zheng Yin and Zheng Guan in their destiny tend to have a gentler temperament and personality.

As the saying goes, "It is easy to change the country but difficult to change one's nature", a person's temperament and personality are partly derived from genetic factors and partly from Feng Shui aura. These two parts are formed congenitally, and the other part comes from acquired influences, that is, personal knowledge and cultivation. From this it can be seen that the formation of personality is mostly determined by innate factors, so a person's temperament and character can be seen from his appearance, speech, behavior, and birth date.

Once you understand a person's temperament and personality, you can prescribe the right medicine for the condition and get what you need during a relationship. You can then find a suitable and good-tempered partner based on your own temperament and personality traits.

In real life, it is not that people with different temperaments and personalities cannot become partners. This is because both parties have the need for mutual dependence and the benefits of mutual restraint. Sometimes this kind of dependence or constraint can just complement each other's strengths and weaknesses, and help each other. However, in this specific situation, it is necessary to test the eight characters of the two people's marriage.

Of course, I believe everyone wants to find a partner with a good temper, and no one wants to find a partner with a bad temper. As a girl who is in a weaker position in a relationship, this desire is especially obvious.

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