Jin Zizai's fortune-telling: What kind of woman is suitable for early marriage?

When it comes to early marriage, we must understand what early marriage is and why it is suitable for some people while not for others. After understanding this topic, whether you are fortune-telling or divination, you will be able to gain insights when facing marriage problems.

In ancient times, there was no such thing as early marriage. It was normal for girls to get married in their teens, but if they were still unmarried after they were over 30, that would be a big problem. Had to lower the standards and get things done hastily. The reason why gentlemen in the market suggest you to marry early or late is entirely because of the conflict between husband and wife.

In ancient times, there were very few marriages between childhood sweethearts. Many were arranged by matchmakers and parents. If you disobeyed, it would be considered a rebellion against human ethics, and you would be labeled with a big hat for the rest of your life, unable to hold your head up, and would have to marry out of necessity.

If a blind date is the first meeting, then the wedding night is the second meeting. It is impossible to fully understand a person's personality and habits after meeting him twice. Therefore, the next few decades of married life will be a long process of adjustment. Since it is a process of adjustment, there will definitely be conflicts, disputes, and unpleasantness. People today may choose divorce. But in the society at that time, scholars valued reputation and women were bound by etiquette and laws, and both sides valued reputation more than life. In ancient times, the population was sparse, and in each town or city, everyone knew each other's situation very well. A little bit of information, any slight movement, and everyone will know.

Don't be superstitious about what you see on TV: men can divorce their wives at will. It is difficult for a poor man to marry a wife, and having no offspring is the worst thing that can happen to him, so how could he possibly divorce his first wife? Rich people can have three wives and four concubines, but once they have children, it is difficult to divorce them and marry someone else. Therefore, divorcing a wife is not something that can be done at will, but is more of a matter of reputation. For example, the character Chen Shimei in the drama abandoned his wife and children, and was scolded for generations to come.

Various conflicts between couples and between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if they cannot divorce, will lead to violence and cold violence. Either the woman dies of depression, or the man dies of depression. After all, the marriage is not happy. And these reasons are nothing more than due to personality.

Women with big cheekbones have a hot temper and a strong desire to control, so they are unlucky in marriage.

Women with big foreheads have too many ideas and are too self-centered. They easily go against the wishes of their parents-in-law and husbands, so they are unlucky in marriage.

Women with eyes that are too small will suppress their emotions and use cold violence, which is why they will bring bad luck to their husbands.

Women with narrow foreheads have limited knowledge, narrow minds, are too entangled, and will quarrel with their husbands, so they will bring bad luck to their husbands.

A woman whose mouth is like blowing fire, loves to nag, scold, and argue, so she will bring bad luck to her husband.

Women with flat noses and dull eyes have low aspirations and knowledge. They cannot educate their children well, so they will bring bad luck to their husbands.

Over a long period of time, a large amount of experience has been passed down from generation to generation and compiled into a book, which is the physiognomy we see today. Not only that, the eight characters also have data about women's bad marriages, such as if it is a lonely day, like the Kuigang pattern, like the heaven's net, like the Red Yansha, like the husband's tomb and husband's extinction, etc.

If you have the facial features or fate that indicate a bad temper and bad personality, you will get married early and will not be able to resist the impulse during the adjustment period. In ancient times, men and women had different statuses, and due to etiquette and laws, divorces were rare. But today is different. Men and women are equal, people are awakened, and they will leave even if it means getting beaten to a pulp. Since you are going to get a divorce, it is better to get married later to reduce the damage to your reputation. That’s why there is a popular saying: You are suitable for late marriage, not early marriage, and early marriage will lead to divorce.

But which type is suitable for early marriage and which type is suitable for late marriage? There are many statements in the physiognomy books, and it is impossible to list them all if we break them down in detail. Summarizing the opinions of various schools, we can reach the following two sentences.

Suitable for those who want to marry early, only three key parts need to be considered: good eyes, high nose and smooth skin.

For those who want to marry late, just look at three key parts: forehead, ears and nose.

As long as a woman has clear eyes, a plump nose and smooth skin, it is completely suitable for her to marry early, and she can marry a good husband. If a woman has a forehead that is too big or too small, or is uneven, her ears are protruding, and her nose is collapsed and sunken, it is recommended that she get married late. As for the specific advantages and disadvantages of the eyes, nose, skin, forehead, ears and other parts, please refer to the early works of Jindao Daxiang.

Source: Jin Zizai Feng Shui Numerology Studio

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